Psychology can be said baby is a very sensitive carrier. A slight change things in the surrounding environment, can cause their attention, if this change is to make babies happy things, your baby will immediately be attracted to the past; the same token, once these changes is to make babies find it difficult to accept things, your baby will be changes in a variety of emotions to express their views. To express these feelings in fact reflects the baby's psychological state at this time: anxiety, disgust, fear ... ...
How to correctly adjust the baby when the psychological change, for growth later in life have a critical influence, because life is always filled with a variety of changes. Therefore, when the baby changes in the surrounding environment, it can never do just keeps it simple for kids to adapt, but also appropriate to help them, and slowly adapt to this change.
Environmental Change 1: Parents travel
Baby's symptoms: crying forever, and wayward disobedient. The most obvious change is the baby it is very anxious, so suddenly crying forever, and wayward disobedient. Their parents in one trip before they will become reluctant to leave them, and refused to sleep alone, do not want to go to school, for fear father or mother is gone forever.
In the father or mother will leave anxiety, depression, sadness, withdrawal, etc., sometimes accompanied by headache, nausea,VomitingAnd other somatic symptoms. These are due to parting of children and families caused by severe anxiety reactions, and generallyPreschoolRelatively clear.
Recommendations: First, pre-mission should be to conduct a long conversation with your child to achieve his understanding. Parents explain to the baby, Dad or Mom travel only because of work requirements, not on behalf of the baby does not like, but travel does not mean that will not go back.
Second, parents should ensure that a day after a business trip to a child playing a phone call, said he miss him very much and look forward to coming back as soon as possible. But also may ask the child what happened today, narrowing the distance between the two.
For the baby in the father or mother of the crying behavior during a business trip, another parent will have to be careful not to take a single cold treatment, but rather to understand why a child has been crying, whether to ignore the what.
For example, in the baby's mother had been talking before going to sleepStoryFor him, but now her mother on a business trip, no one gave him a story, and this, my father must assume the responsibility of telling stories. In addition, when the parents returned from a business trip, we should remember that your child brought a gift that Dad or Mom has always care about the baby. After a business trip brought back a gift, you can make a child feel that Dad or Mom is a surprise trip.
Environmental Change 2: move, transfer from Friends
Baby's symptoms: depression, so little reluctant to share with others. Baby to the new environment or strangers generate fear, anxiety and avoidance behavior, sometimes to the extent an exception. They will create a new environment and strangers sustained or recurring course of fear, nervous, evasive and regressive behavior. As the move, transfer and other reasons, for which she had left his familiar surroundings and want a good partner, came to a totally strange place.
Where the children already familiar with each other and play together, while the baby like an outsider like himself, which he will definitely result in psychological effects of direct response is not willing to go to school, depression, liked to shut himself in the room, do not want to go outē©.
Recommendation: Parents should be the timely detection of the baby's psychological changes. The child's resistance to the strongest, do not reluctantly baby, let him vent his discontent. At the same time, a variety of outside interest in things that can cause babies to divert his attention, and slowly led him to participate in various outdoor and group activities. If the baby appears cowardice, parents can accompany their children join play, and will take the initiative to introduce your baby to other children.
Environmental Change 3: family illness
Baby's symptoms: anxiety, fear, angry for no reason. When the family sick, baby usually produces anxiety and fear. One hand, they fear that the condition of their loved ones become worried; the other hand, they fear their own fears will become sick.
In the children's psychology, illness has always been a synonym for disaster, when injections are sick, take medicine, can not go out to play, the body becomes uncomfortable, which have led to a child for a kind of subconscious resistance to illness. Therefore, some parents bring the child to visit sick relatives in, the child will suddenly crying forever, and you want to get out of here.
Recommendation: Parents should first of all to ensure their children, to visit the patient does not mean that one will get sick, which can be the first to lift the child's psychological burden. Second, parents can give their children that if you go to visit the sick, make the patient happy, then quickly recovered. The child's imagination is very rich, and even some of the results of this will happen an infinite expansion, and thus become very timid fear. At this time, parents deal with the right conferred upon him the knowledge, to eliminate their fear of the psychological.
Environmental Change 4: The family's death
Baby Performance: Self-closing, selective mutism, or attack others. When the relatives died, some babies will face a variety of emotional problems, such as nervous, timid, crying, stick people, anxiety, afraid of the dark, can not be alone, not gregarious, impatience, love and so angry. There is no doubt the sudden death of their loved ones is very easy to infant mental impact.
Recommendations: First of all have to give them some protection, such as more access to them, multi-touch them, it is best not to let children left alone, let the children feel secure. Secondly, as far as possible the transfer of the child's attention, such as the colorful life of their children so that they do not have time to refine those sad things. Finally, do not front of the children repeatedly mentioned those things, which will increase the child's psychological burden. If the child is always in a state of mental stress, parents should at the appropriate time, with popular discourse to the child a proper persuasion.
How to correctly adjust the baby when the psychological change, for growth later in life have a critical influence, because life is always filled with a variety of changes. Therefore, when the baby changes in the surrounding environment, it can never do just keeps it simple for kids to adapt, but also appropriate to help them, and slowly adapt to this change.
Environmental Change 1: Parents travel
Baby's symptoms: crying forever, and wayward disobedient. The most obvious change is the baby it is very anxious, so suddenly crying forever, and wayward disobedient. Their parents in one trip before they will become reluctant to leave them, and refused to sleep alone, do not want to go to school, for fear father or mother is gone forever.
In the father or mother will leave anxiety, depression, sadness, withdrawal, etc., sometimes accompanied by headache, nausea,VomitingAnd other somatic symptoms. These are due to parting of children and families caused by severe anxiety reactions, and generallyPreschoolRelatively clear.
Recommendations: First, pre-mission should be to conduct a long conversation with your child to achieve his understanding. Parents explain to the baby, Dad or Mom travel only because of work requirements, not on behalf of the baby does not like, but travel does not mean that will not go back.
Second, parents should ensure that a day after a business trip to a child playing a phone call, said he miss him very much and look forward to coming back as soon as possible. But also may ask the child what happened today, narrowing the distance between the two.
For the baby in the father or mother of the crying behavior during a business trip, another parent will have to be careful not to take a single cold treatment, but rather to understand why a child has been crying, whether to ignore the what.
For example, in the baby's mother had been talking before going to sleepStoryFor him, but now her mother on a business trip, no one gave him a story, and this, my father must assume the responsibility of telling stories. In addition, when the parents returned from a business trip, we should remember that your child brought a gift that Dad or Mom has always care about the baby. After a business trip brought back a gift, you can make a child feel that Dad or Mom is a surprise trip.
Environmental Change 2: move, transfer from Friends
Baby's symptoms: depression, so little reluctant to share with others. Baby to the new environment or strangers generate fear, anxiety and avoidance behavior, sometimes to the extent an exception. They will create a new environment and strangers sustained or recurring course of fear, nervous, evasive and regressive behavior. As the move, transfer and other reasons, for which she had left his familiar surroundings and want a good partner, came to a totally strange place.
Where the children already familiar with each other and play together, while the baby like an outsider like himself, which he will definitely result in psychological effects of direct response is not willing to go to school, depression, liked to shut himself in the room, do not want to go outē©.
Recommendation: Parents should be the timely detection of the baby's psychological changes. The child's resistance to the strongest, do not reluctantly baby, let him vent his discontent. At the same time, a variety of outside interest in things that can cause babies to divert his attention, and slowly led him to participate in various outdoor and group activities. If the baby appears cowardice, parents can accompany their children join play, and will take the initiative to introduce your baby to other children.
Environmental Change 3: family illness
Baby's symptoms: anxiety, fear, angry for no reason. When the family sick, baby usually produces anxiety and fear. One hand, they fear that the condition of their loved ones become worried; the other hand, they fear their own fears will become sick.
In the children's psychology, illness has always been a synonym for disaster, when injections are sick, take medicine, can not go out to play, the body becomes uncomfortable, which have led to a child for a kind of subconscious resistance to illness. Therefore, some parents bring the child to visit sick relatives in, the child will suddenly crying forever, and you want to get out of here.
Recommendation: Parents should first of all to ensure their children, to visit the patient does not mean that one will get sick, which can be the first to lift the child's psychological burden. Second, parents can give their children that if you go to visit the sick, make the patient happy, then quickly recovered. The child's imagination is very rich, and even some of the results of this will happen an infinite expansion, and thus become very timid fear. At this time, parents deal with the right conferred upon him the knowledge, to eliminate their fear of the psychological.
Environmental Change 4: The family's death
Baby Performance: Self-closing, selective mutism, or attack others. When the relatives died, some babies will face a variety of emotional problems, such as nervous, timid, crying, stick people, anxiety, afraid of the dark, can not be alone, not gregarious, impatience, love and so angry. There is no doubt the sudden death of their loved ones is very easy to infant mental impact.
Recommendations: First of all have to give them some protection, such as more access to them, multi-touch them, it is best not to let children left alone, let the children feel secure. Secondly, as far as possible the transfer of the child's attention, such as the colorful life of their children so that they do not have time to refine those sad things. Finally, do not front of the children repeatedly mentioned those things, which will increase the child's psychological burden. If the child is always in a state of mental stress, parents should at the appropriate time, with popular discourse to the child a proper persuasion.
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